Let me start off by saying that life as a woman comes with a hefty price and I completely one hundred percent support sugar daddy dating. We need to prime, primp and pamper ourselves the right way in order to avoid looking like a cheap whore. There is a fine line between sexy seductress and bimbo barbie. Have you ever seen an older man with a younger woman and thought to yourself, “yep, she’s fucking him for cash”. I see it too often and it’s not a good look for anyone, just saying. I think sugar daddy dating is a complex subject with a wide array of exceptions to the “rules of dating”. I don’t think that Sugar Babies are Gold Diggers, because there is a mutual understanding of what is expected of both parties.
That’s right folks- daddy is going to want the goods, are you willing to give it up? I don’t know what is wrong with people today, but for some reason certain people think they are entitled to a specific way of life without having to put in work. Hate to break it to you, but if Daddy is going to support your wants, needs and desires you better believe he is ready to go to pound town. I don’t care if someone offered me an insanely large sum of money– if I’m not attracted to the person, there is no way in hell I can fake it. My first piece of advice is forget his bank account and look at him as a person, if he doesn’t make the cut as a” regular guy”- he’s not the daddy for you. People today are promiscuous by default, close your legs and evaluate the foundation of your situation. Is it built upon mutual desire and raw chemistry? The financial aspect of the relationship should be a bonus, not your main objective. If the relationship is built on using your vagina as a barter for cash, you’re a prostitute.
The infamous high maintenance hussy. Attention to all the bitches who think that they better than everyone else, please hop off of your high horse. Reality check, no one is that vested in your life (I bet that shocked you and you disagree) and if they are… congratulations but, what did you get out of it? The thing that burns me up about women who are extremely high maintenance is that while it’s awesome to go get your hair done weekly, massages, facials (you’re dirty, get your mind out of the gutter) and whatever else your little heart desires; it’s excessive and unnecessary. My point is, sometimes you have to do it your goddamn self. Occasionally, a day at home fixing yourself up is more valuable than a day at the spa. All women love shoes, it’s a disease. If you have 10 pairs of black peep toe pumps that all look identical, you are officially placed into the high maintenance category. Nothing is good in excess, remember that.
Gifts: Woman love gifts (if they are being modest and say that it’s not about the gifts they are lying to you). Surprises are the best. Sugar daddies need to be extremely creative when it comes to gift giving. Pay attention to her style, listen to what she say; seriously this is important. Sugar Daddies should think outside of the box and make their baby happy. What’s better than seeing your sugar baby happy? Blow jobs. Blow jobs are way better than that. Guess what? Daddies get plenty of blow jobs if they master the craft of gift giving.
Personally, I have a strange obsession with luxury cars– obviously for the safety features, I’m not that superficial. I know a woman who has had 4 cars in the last 3 years, all priced at over $65,000… each one was bought by a different sugar daddy. Daddies in these sort of arrangements can be guaranteed a ride, no I’m not talking about reverse cowgirl, I’m talking about a ride in his car that his baby hijacked from him or the one he just dropped $70,000 on for her. Many sugar babies are all about status, nothing speaks “rich bitch” like pulling up in a Bently. Beware!
The men who are trying to sell themselves as Sugar Daddies are sometimes more desperate than the Sugar Babies. Showing off what they have and making everything look better than what it is in reality. These are the kind of people to stay away from. Oh, you have a photo with 3 young women in the club? Any regular man can do that, just buy the “bottle whores” drinks– they will be more than happy to pose with whomever. The vacation house in Miami can easily be a rental. The picture next to that expensive car that is parked on the street– probably not his. Impostor Sugar Daddies are everywhere, don’t say I didn’t warn you.
I am the kind of woman that likes to be proud of where her money comes from. I like to work, it gives me a sense of accomplishment. I have also been fortunate enough to have different opportunities come my way. Some woman need help and have to make those opportunities for themselves. The perfect sugar baby is the woman who is trying to better herself and lifestyle with a little bit of help– not the one who want a different Prada bag each week. Get your shit together ladies. Women have more to offer a man than just the “P”. If they don’t then they need to work on themselves before finding a partner. Don’t expect more than what you are giving. Lastly, don’t be boring. No one likes boring. Be yourself. Have fun and make memories.
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